A lot of people find it hard to stay up beat. We have all seen people who seem to hold a smile all of the time or laugh spontaneously over simple things. How is it that they manage to stay so upbeat?
One thing upbeat people have is a positive attitude towards life and others. They seem to always see the good, however bad an experience may be. Thinking positively does wonders for releasing negativity and gaining an understanding of the beauty of life, with all its ups and downs.
Try this, look up at the sky and notice how it changes all the time. Sometimes it’s a little cloudy, sometimes it’s grey, and sometimes it can be raging with thunder, lighting, and gail force winds. Those raging skies always clear away though, and eventually you see the beautiful azure blue that coats the earth. When this happens, you can’t help but smile. This is a metaphor for life, because we all have good times and bad times. The key to being upbeat all the time is all about how you perceive things and react to situations.
Being upbeat also has to do with the amount of passion you have in your life. You need and to be the rudder, which steers you through the bad times. Look for something that you can work towards that will feed your passion, such as learning to play a musical instrument or a particular skill that you’ve always admired or a creative project you always wanted to do. Don’t make it simple, choose something that you need to work hard for and you’ll find that small setbacks won’t matter because the bigger achievement overrides them all.
When a bad time arrive, keep doing constructive things and don’t let yourself fall into victim mode. Just take the negative situation, and feelings, with a grain of salt and tell yourself “this too shall pass”. Some things occur that are out of your control and therefore not your fault, so don’t beat yourself up. Just accept that setbacks will happen, but they are just minor bumps in the highway and your main path is moving forward and is positive.
Surround yourself with friends and family that support your life choices and who you are. Let go of the negative issues and stay clear of negative people that just want to bring you down to their level of negativity.
If you don’t have many friends or family then don’t despair, just stick to your path, stay positive, and you will find that other positive people will seek you out as a friend. A lot of people just want success and love as quickly as possible, but make bad choices and pay for their mistakes later. So don’t look for shortcuts, because the easy path will inevitably lead to disappointment, while a path that requires you to work hard, taking one day at a time, setting goals for yourself and working towards them, will lead you to long-term happiness.
Instead of getting bothered by negative occurrences, just think of the choices that are yours to make and overcome the negativity with a positive attitude.
There are so many things you can do to keep yourself upbeat. Most importantly, keep reminding yourself why you need to be upbeat. Your positive attitude is the fuel that will keep you going and keep you away from taking on a victim attitude.
Let yourself be free from negativity by looking at choosing positive things and staying upbeat all the time with positive actions towards goals that fuel your passion. Then you will find a joy in your heart that reminds you of how great it really is to be alive.